As we grow up, we learn so many things. One of those things is learning from your failures.
I learned a lot from my failures. One of those is that, your failures are not really failures. You see, everything is so relative.
Success is assumed to be something positive whereas failure is assumed to be something negative.
Success is assumed to be something positive whereas failure is assumed to be something negative.
Like everything else, we have assigned such convention to these two entities. How about, taking these two things in the reverse order, or assigning some other convention to these two entities ?
Well, I decide to assign my own meaning to success and failures, and I assume such definitions, that no matter what happens, I am happy. Isn't that what we are eventually striving for ?
When I was preparing for IIT-JEE and was not able to clear it, I was so disappointed. I was a kid and I had not idea about what was waiting for me in my life ahead. Thanks to my life, I made awesome friends and had such a good time of my life that I never for once, felt about my failure and in fact I sometimes felt good about my failure.Then I stanced upon this revelation that if I am feeling good about a failure, then isnt the original definition of failure skewed in itself ! I am not supposed to appreciate my failure! Am I ?
Yes, I can do anything since its all relative. And as long as life is good, I can frame and re-create my own definitions if that makes me happy.